About the Men’s Residential Re-treat

HeArt2heart sacred connection

OK, so I haven’t had too many hugs lately but I haven’t given too many either.

Frankly, I’m nervous. It’s been so long. I’ve lost my spontaneity.

What if he doesn’t want me to?  If he pushes me away?

I feel, sort of, alone, disconnected. How do I Re-connect?

Our invasion is all about revaluating our lives, finding contentment, taking a break, having fun, reconnecting, decluttering, making new friends, and exploring various activities like art, meditation, and more. It’s a unique opportunity to unleash your inner power and overcome the obstacles that may be holding you back.

At this invasion, we’ll delve into the secrets of the Chakras, examining why we sometimes struggle to ascend through their seven levels. We’ll engage in thought-provoking discussions on Erotic Embodiment, shifting the focus from mere satisfying sexual desires to a deeper understanding of our sensuality.

We’ll explore all seven of man’s highest attributes, fostering a profound reconnection with ourselves and our fellow invaders. Through targeted exercises, art, meditation, cuddling, and the creation of a safe and supportive space for each other, we’ll uncover where we stand in our lives right now. 

What is this madness?

On this re-treat the aim is to:

  • Re-connect
  • Re-connect and Re-focus our life to what it should be
  • Re-connect and Re-evaluate our decisions on how life should be and what is important
  • The retreat will challenge our beliefs and perceptions of connection.
  • HeArt2Heart retreat will focus on the different energy points in our bodies and will challenge our state of need, connection, self-love, vulnerability and our sacred heart space.


This week-end retreat is designed to let us re-value our life, to be content with our life, to take  a break, to have fun, re-connect, de-clutter, make new friends, take time to do art, be powerful, meditate, amongst others.

This entirely new re-treat will examine our Chakras and find out why we are struggling to move up the seven levels. Finding what is holding us back.

some Q and A..

We will discuss Erotic Embodiment, as opposed to Satisfying Sexual Wants.

We will explore all seven of Man’s highest attributes. All of these are needed to fully re-connect.

We will be using targeted exercises, art work, various meditations, cuddling, holding the space for another person, ceremonies and rituals to find where in your life you are at this moment.

Where is your heart space? What is important in your life?

Event format:

Be prepared to do solo work sustained by the group, but with duos and trios and group work throughout.

What to bring:

An open mind. A sarong, beach towel, hand towel, sandals, walking shoes and toiletries, we will forward you a more complete list once you’ve purchased a ticket

What to wear:

Comfortable, loose clothes or sarong during the retreat and something warm for the evenings. During the retreat, we request that you refrain from using perfumes or deodorants.


No previous experience of massage, yoga or bodywork is needed but would be an advantage eg. Aquabliss or a Massage Exchange


Nudity will be part of the progression of the re – treat. The True Self is free and without identity. Clothing, labels and technology mask our True Self. We, therefore, invite you, if you feel comfortable, to shed these layers or masks and experience the weekend with no restrictions.

Is this for me?

This event is open to men regardless. Often we can give ourselves a hard time on how we think we look to others, and this is an opportunity to go beyond that, to be vulnerable and to let others accept you just as you are. With open hearts, with an openness to accept everybody, let the magic of touch take you to new parts of yourself you never knew existed. Read more if you have any more questions FAQ.

Invest in Yourself:

**ZAR 5 800-00 per person (A concession for South African citizens only apply after we receive application form) – venue, lodging and food prices are based on 2023 in Gauteng.

** Please note – different prices in different areas and venues

All inclusive* retreat experience includes:

  • Lodging – 2 nights
  • Food and Beverage (soft drinks and juice) – Vegan and vegetarian meals are available on request
  • All retreat activities, classes and teachings
  • *Airfare and transport to and from retreat venue are not included

We strive to deliver a fully inclusive weekend with all details attended to. You simply show up and enjoy.
The retreat breaks down to R2900 a day per person (R1150 lodging and food & Retreat R1750) for a total price of R5800-00 (Gauteng Prices)

Different payment options are available: 

  • Local & Forex Cash Accepted
  • EFT (Bank Transfer) ZAR or Euro
  • PayPal (5% handling fee will be charged)
  • Credit Card (5% handling fee will be charged)

Next Level Upgrade Awaits – Western Cape



The full schedule is yet to be published, but check out a sample schedule from a Saturday last year below.
Dependent on weather, we will also have a fun in the rock pool – naked.

SATURDAY – 30 Oct 2021

07:00 – 07:45   Butterfly Hall: Morning meditation – Yoga or Breathing

08:00 – 09:00   BREAKFAST 

09:00 – 09:30   Butterfly hall: Family/tribe debrief

09:30 – 10:00   Break

                        be freshly showered, beach towel & sarong.

10:00 0 10:15  Touch / Cuddle 

10:15 – 11:15   Outside / Grass area – activity 

11:15 – 12:15   Butterfly hall: Indoor activity

12:15 – 13:00  Butterfly hall: Indoor Activity

13:00 – 14:00   LUNCH

14:00 – 14:15   Butterfly Hall: Work Manipura & Energy

                        be freshly showered, beach towel & sarong.

14:15 – 18:00   Grass Area – Rock pool

18:00 – 19:00   Break – write a letter

                        Required Exercise: White Cloths (undie & White shirt and Mask) 

19:00 – 20:00   DINNER

20:00 – LATE    Fire Pit: Fire ritual 


The week-end retreat starts on Friday at 17:00 and concludes Sunday mid-morning. Registration starts from 15:00 on Friday afternoon. (Sometimes we ad a combo retreat and the duration might be longer)


Read more about Johan Muller or contact him on +27 83 286 1891


There is safe on site parking and the facility is accessible with a normal car that is not too low.

Re-claim, re-connect, re-focus & re-evaluate retreat 4 men

Next weekend Retreat

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There are no prerequisites for this Retreat, and you are most welcome to try any other events:

Re-claim, re-connect, re-focus & re-evaluate retreat 4 men
Re-claim, re-connect, re-focus & re-evaluate retreat 4 men