About this Men’s Residential Retreat:

This is a weekend residential (sleepover) retreat in and around Southern Africa. The retreat will challenge our beliefs and perceptions of the self. It examines topics like body image, the low self-esteem that may result from that image, the potential personality and sexual dysfunctions, the outdated beliefs we hold about ourselves, and our narrow-minded boundaries.

Purpose of this retreat:

“Body image” is the way that someone perceives their body and assumption of how others perceive them. This image is often affected by family, friends, social pressure and the media. The purpose of the retreat is to “let-go”, accept and change our views.

  • The emphasis is on a connection with our bodies (physical), our sex (penis), our mind and spirit (our higher selves)
  • To challenge and change the irrational perception of the self
  • The acceptance of the self, the body, penis and all other bits
  • The realization that basically we all are just the same with the same insecurities
  • The realization that by accepting ourselves we become empowered
  • With empowerment comes the confidence of self-love
  • with self-love, there is the potential of growing your relationships with others


Event format:

Be prepared to do solo work sustained by the group, but with duos and trios and group work throughout.

What to bring:

A sarong, beach towel, hand towel, sandals, walking shoes and toiletries, we will forward you a more complete list once you purchase a ticket.

What to wear:

Comfortable, loose clothes or sarong during the retreat and something warm for the evenings. During the retreat, we request that you refrain from using perfumes or deodorants.


No previous experience of massage, yoga or bodywork is needed but would be an advantage eg. Aquabliss or a Massage exchange


The True Self is free and without identity. Clothing, labels and technology mask our True Self. We, therefore, invite you, if you feel comfortable, to shed these layers and experience the weekend with no restrictions.

Is this for me?

This event is open to men regardless. Often we can give ourselves a hard time on how we think we look to others, and this is an opportunity to go beyond that, to be vulnerable and to let others accept you just as you are. With open hearts, with an openness to accept everybody, let the magic of touch take you to new parts of yourself you never knew existed. Read more if you have any more questions FAQ.

Invest in Yourself:

ZAR 5 800-00 per person (A concession for South African citizens only apply after we receive application form) – venue, lodging and food prices are based on 2023 in Gauteng.  

All inclusive* retreat experience includes:

  • Lodging – 2 nights
  • Food and Beverage (soft drinks and juice) – Vegan and vegetarian meals are available on request
  • All retreat activities, classes and teachings
  • *Airfare and transport to and from retreat venue are not included

We strive to deliver a fully inclusive weekend with all details attended to. You simply show up and enjoy.
The retreat breaks down to R2900 a day per person (R1150 lodging and food & Retreat R1750) for a total price of R5800-00 

Different payment options are available: 

  • Local & Forex Cash Accepted
  • EFT (Bank Transfer) ZAR or Euro – 5% discount
  • PayPal (5% handling fee will be charged)
  • Secure online payment via Quicket – Credit Card

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The full schedule is yet to be published, but check out a sample schedule from a Saturday last year below.
Dependent on weather, we will also have a fun in the rock pool – naked.

SATURDAY – 30 Oct 2021

07:00 – 07:45   Butterfly Hall: Morning meditation – Yoga or Breathing

08:00 – 09:00   BREAKFAST 

09:00 – 09:30   Butterfly hall: Family/tribe debrief

09:30 – 10:00   Break

                        be freshly showered, beach towel & sarong.

10:00 0 10:15  Touch / Cuddle 

10:15 – 11:15   Outside / Grass area – activity 

11:15 – 12:15   Butterfly hall: Indoor activity

12:15 – 13:00  Butterfly hall: Indoor Activity

13:00 – 14:00   LUNCH

14:00 – 14:15   Butterfly Hall: Work Manipura & Energy

                        be freshly showered, beach towel & sarong.

14:15 – 18:00   Grass Area – Rock pool

18:00 – 19:00   Break – write a letter

                        Required Exercise: White Cloths (undie & White shirt and Mask) 

19:00 – 20:00   DINNER

20:00 – LATE    Fire Pit: Fire ritual 


Week-end retreat starts on the Friday 18:00 – Sunday mid-morning or as per event schedule.(Sometimes we ad a combo retreat and the duration might be longer)


Read more about Johan Muller


Safe parking and the facility is accessible with a normal car that is not too low.


Transport can be shared (this we organise closer to the event) or can be arranged with Ulysses Tours (Jaco +27 12 653 0018) Gauteng only

Why should you attend a male-only retreat?

Upcoming retreats



  • There are no upcoming events in KZN

Western Cape

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There are no prerequisites for this Retreat, and you are most welcome to try any other events:

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