P and L have been married for over 14 years and have been together as a gay couple almost 3 decades. They work together in their own communication business. P and L both had been in a previous relationship which had petered out and after being single for several years they met at a social event, and it was a magic instant attraction.
“Working together and often having to meet tight deadlines we started living past each other, our communication was no longer about us, but about the job. While we still love each other dearly we lost some of the spark in our relationship and in our intimacy”, P said.
“We read about Johan Muller’s comfort course for couples and decided that it would be an opportunity to work on our relationship.
Coach Johan, with his wealth of experience in assisting couples to achieve their best selves, offers a programme in which everything is done with the intention of facilitating one’s mutual self-discovery and achieving a deeper, more meaningful connection with each other. It is an opportunity to discover love, acceptance, and the deep awareness of fully belonging to each other.
“That is what we needed and what we experienced after a day with Johan”, P said. L takes up the story. “He gently guided us into the exploration of Touch, Intimacy and Massage. He reminded us of the power of communication, and that communication is so much more than just talking. He took us through several experiences which showed us how to take us back where we once were at the beginning of our relationship. How to communicate at a deeper level”.
“With his guidance we explored some avenues and ideas that we never would have thought about and that maybe we were reluctant to talk to each other about. Johan helped us to explore our inner selves, to shed inhibitions and obstacles that may have blocked our intimacy over time and turned our strong relationship into something even more special. After having been together for so many years who would have expected that we still had inhibitions in sharing our deeper emotions?
He taught us about lingam massage, which was one of the most outstanding experiences. Both P and L agreed that just to learn how to explore intimate zones on and around the penis certainly took our intimacy to a new level. To be nude together may be comfortable but taking our sexual being deep into our soul is a experience difficult to explain, one must experience it.
“Traveling back from Pretoria, we live in country town, we could sense a new closeness and admitted to each other that we are still very much in love with each other. Johan taught us how to keep the flame burning high. We can recommend his course to any couple whether gay or heterosexual”, P said.
